The Man Trap

The Man Trap

When I was a young dad, I loved reading picture books to my kids every night. Their favourites were read and re-read to the point that even they knew what the words on the page were, long before they could read. These times were precious because that’s how their...
Living Free of the White Male System

Living Free of the White Male System

In 1972, Ann Wilson Schaef, an American psychotherapist, coined the phrase “white male system.” which is a consciousness that she says infects everyone living in western society. It’s a very addictive way of thinking and feeling that imprisons us, but we don’t know it...

Hands Across The Divide

It is very rare that I would write anything political, and I am quite sure that right now the very last thing any of you want to read is anything political. So instead, I want to talk about a two subjects we often visit in healthy male spirituality. The first is the...