Pay It Forward – The Gathering 2025

Chances are, you know another man who needs what you found here.

• Support when things were falling apart.
• Honest conversations without judgement.
• Tools to face what’s real — not run from it.

This weekend, you can help someone else get that chance. We want to invite you to pay it forward— to put something toward another man who needs this work but can’t afford it right now.

Here’s how it works:
Each option below represents a real way you can directly support a man doing it tough, whether it’s covering counselling, subsidising a rite of passage, or simply helping someone show up. You choose the level. We make sure it goes where it’s needed.

• $30 buys a man a ticket to our next “Evening With…” online event. A conversation that might just change their life.
• $75 provides a subsidized counselling session for a man in crisis.
• $100 helps train and equip a new Circle facilitator. Because when one man steps up to lead, many more find a place to open up.
• $250 subsidises a Forged experience for a young man whose looking for the next step, but unable to cover the cost himself.
• $350 funds a place at next year’s Gathering. For some men, this is the turning point.
• $500 subsidises a rite of passage for a man who needs it now. Many arrive in crisis, and this is where the healing begins.
• Or give what you can. Even a partial contribution makes a difference. When we pool our generosity, we make this work possible together. Pay what you can by clicking on this link to pay what you can via our PayPal account – https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=74FZRWMQBA224

And some of you are ready for more. You’re not just thinking about the next man… you’re thinking about the next hundred.

You believe in what this work could become — and you have the means to help make it happen. That’s what The Growth Project is about.

• $10,000 — Fuels The Growth Project — the quiet, steady expansion of the work. A legacy gift for the men who haven’t found us yet.

Let’s just name it.
There’s no way of asking for money that doesn’t feel a bit awkward and contrived.
But, we make no apologies for asking because this work matters.

Men’s lives are being changed — sometimes saved — because spaces like this exist.
And the only way it continues is if people like you give.

So, thank you for giving what you can.

Thank you for believing in this work.
Let’s make sure the next man finds what you found.